Archive for the ‘motherhood’ Category

Calming colicky & teething babies.

Thursday, October 15th, 2009

My 2 yr old still loves his bed time massage! Soothing chamomile and mandarin make this Baby Oil sweet and soft.
Sweet Baby Massage & Bath Oil

Not long ago I was providing postpartum care to a family that had just had twins. The twins were often restless at night. The mom was becoming exhausted and was making efforts to increase their sleep at night. I recommended the Sweet Baby Massage & Bath Oil to add to the bath simply to help them relax and soften their skin. When my client mentioned that the babies seemed to be gassy at night, and that this might be the cause of their restlessness I explained that the Sweet Baby Oil was also helpful for colicky babies because of the mandarin essential oil.

mandarin essential oil
Used in a gentle massage this oil helps relieve cramping and gas (Natural Creation Sweet Baby Oil has the perfect ratio of pure mandarin essential oil and a soothing apricot kernel base oil). One day I arrived at the house after a few days away, and the mom told me the twins had been sleeping well! She was so relieved to get some sleep at night, and told me what a difference the oil had made. She and her husband had started adding the Sweet Baby Massage & Bath Oil to the bed time routine, and giving the twins a gentle massage with it before bed – she was amazed at how it relieved their gassy tummies and soothed them into a deeper and longer sleep!

As babies get older they rely a lot on the bed time routine to help them sleep. The Sweet Baby Massage & Bath Oil is a perfect addition to this routine. While the mandarin can help relieve gas in a massage, the chamomile is excellent for easing teething pain when the oil is added to their bath. Chamomile also helps relieve eczema and dry skin, especially when combined with the gentle apricot kernel oil.
apricot kernel oil
Take time to connect with your little one and soothe baby with a gentle massage!


BC Women’s Show!

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009

There is entertainment, fun, and lots to see and do for women of all ages.
Relax With A Massage
Delight In A Makeover
Win a Fabulous Door Prize
Learn from Fascinating Presentations
Magical Entertainment
Savour the Sizzling Cooking Demos
Shop For Gifts and Valuable Information
SPIN & WIN ON THE PRIZE WHEEL

And Much More…

LOCATION
Pearkes Recreation Centre
3100 Tillicum Road
Victoria, BC Canada

This weekend  Natural Creation will have a booth where you can check out and get great deals on many of our wonderful products!

The items we will be selling at discounted prices this weekend include:

Organic Aromatherapy Neck Wraps & Eye Pillows

Sunny Citrus Bath Salts!Bring sunshine to the grey winter days!

Sunny Citrus Soap

Sunny Citrus Mist

Dry Skin Salve

Scar Repair Balm

and MORE!
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We look forward to seeing you there!

Visit the BC Women’s show site for $2 off your ticket!

Monday Morning Inspiration

Monday, September 28th, 2009

“Take risks, you can never discover new oceans unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.”

Found this quote this morning and had to share!

Happy Monday!

Emily

Tips for Achieving a Natural Birth

Saturday, September 26th, 2009

***Please be aware that not all of the tips given are necessary or safe for everyone – please talk to your midwife or doctor about all of the information here before using any of it!***

  • Eat well – it is important to maintain a healthy diet throughout your pregnancy.  Frequent, small meals high in protein throughout the day will help minimize sugar cravings and maintain energy levels.  Snacking on nuts and vegetables is a great way to nourish your body.  Fruits and sugary snacks should be kept to a minimum so as not to increase your risk for gestational diabetes.
  • Exercisemaintaining flexibility and fitness levels is important for the work of labour!  Prenatal yoga, swimming, and walking are all excellent forms of moderate exercise.  Exercise can help you maintain your energy levels and improve your sleep and overall comfort throughout your pregnancy.  Be sure to consult your health care provider before beginning any new exercise routines, or if you feel any unusual discomfort.
  • Cervical Ripeningbefore labour can begin, the cervix has to soften and shorten.  Acupuncture, the application of evening primrose oil to the cervix, sexual intercourse, and the use of homeopathics can all aid in the progression of cervical ripening.  Make sure the acupuncturist you see is experienced and specializes in working with ecxpectant mothers, and of course consult with your health care provider before doing anything to ripen your cervix.  Cervical ripening (if approved by your health care provider) is often something that one would begin at around 36 weeks.
  • Perineal Massage - massaging the perineum before childbirth helps to stretch the tissues, and more importantly – creates an awareness of the muscle.  When a baby’s head is crowning, the mother must consciously relax her perineum to help prevent tearing- this can be a challenge unless one devlops an awareness about this muscle, and practices relaxing it even when there is pressure against it.  Ask your health care provider or doula for a hand out with detailed instructions on how to do this and what stage of your pregnancy this is appropriate.
  • Educationgroup or one on one prenatal education classes can make a big difference for people.  Also reading inspiring and educational books can help you gain an understanding about the physical and emotional changes you can expect throughout your pregnancy and labour.  Become aware about common medical interventions and medications – find out the common reasons for their use and the possible side affects.  Ask questions of your doctor, midwife and doula - knowledge is power!
  • Meditation practicing meditation throughout your pregnancy, and particularly leading up to labour can help you stay feeling centered.  Meditation can mean many different things for different people – it can be guided meditation with a mentor, or simply taking 10 minutes out every day to sit and enjoy nature, or some quiet time to connect with your baby and your body.
  • Choose your support team carefully people often envision a bit of a gathering for their birth, it’s important to realize that labour is a very primal experience and one needs to feel comfortable on every level to do whatever it is their body feels.  It’s a good idea to have an extra set of hands because labour can be long and often requires a lot of: massage, counterpressure, the fetching of food and beverages, preperation of comfortable places, photo taking if desired, additional information and suggestions when mom and partner are exhausted, giving the partner a break to pee / eat/ sleep when needed, and of course reassurance and support for the partner as they support the mother.  Choose somebody that you feel comfortable vocalizing around – if the people you have in mind are going to be anxious about seeing you experience intensity, or fearful of possible complications, or tend to ask a lot of questions for reassurance (ie: are you ok? do you need anything?) it may be wise to consider other support people or deligate someone to guide and reassure the people you have with you.
  • Hire a doula doulas are educated and experienced in such a way that they help create a quiet, calm, and confident environment through gentle guidance and reassurance to loved ones and the labouring mother.  A doula can offer updates, reassurance and guidance to family or friends that are present or waiting near by; a doula provides the mother with physical necessities (or guides her partner to) without having to be asked; a doula offers appropriate phrases and statements to mother and partner for the various stages of labour; a doula can provide, and show the partner, acupressure to ease pain for the labouring mother; a doula often carries heating pads, homeopathics, aromatherapy and other tools to help mom cope with the intensity of labour; a doula can help the parents remain calm, informed and empowered throughout even a complicated labour therefore creating a more positive birth experience.
  • Perineal healing – after giving birth many women experience discomfort as a result of hemorrhoids, tearing, or swelling – this can be soothed by applying cold pads soaked in Natural Creation Postpartum Wellness Bath Tea

    or simply by adding the tea or some Postpartum Wellness Bath Salts

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    to a hip bath.  Taking homeopathic arnica can also help reduce swelling, and sore muscles over the whole body (again – consult your health care provider).

For more information on how to help achieve a natural birth please contact a doula in your area Vancouver —  Calgary —  Victoria for a free consultation.

The tremendous 2s!

Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009

What could be more fun for two 2 yr old boys than jumping in mud puddles?  It was a beautiful day – the rain from the night before left plenty of mud puddles, and the sun had come out to keep them warm while they played – perfect!

Family time is so important.  Most weekends we’ve had something major we were preparing for or participipating in, but this weekend we had nothing!  It was glorious! The weekend started with a date night at Horizons Resteraunt followed by a morning of puddle jumping in sunshine – the boys got suited up in their rain gear and had such an amazing time!

muddy puddle jumping

muddy puddle jumping

We took them home for their snack and quiet time before heading out to another park to look at ducks and swing on swings.  The whole weekend they were sooo good!  It’s amazing how much easier toddlers are when your focus is simply finding parks and playing with them.  It’s not that the age itself is difficult – it’s that getting things done with a child that age is difficult!  If one can focus on them and their interests it’s a piece of cake!  So here I am in this familiar place of contemplating and altering my parenting according to the age and stage.  Parenting is the most incredibly dynamic and challenging thing I’ve ever attempted – and I love it!  It keeps you on your toes – when they are babies our challenge is getting enough sleep and food while tending to their shorter sleep cycles and seemingly constant need to eat, as they get older the challenge moves to keeping them safe as they explore their boundaries and focused when they’ve developed the ability to wander off in the middle of getting them dressed etc. and keeping them entertained while getting our own tasks done because a set of keys is no longer a source of entertainment!  It better involve gross motor skills for the better part of the day, and intellectual stimulation for a good portion as well.

Ethan at 2.5 yrs can now count to 12 and point out most of the letters in the alphabet and relate them to words -” ‘m’ is for mama, ‘e’ is for Ethan, ‘g’ is for granddad, ‘n’ is for nana, ‘p’ is for pee pee, ’s’ is for sophia, ‘k’ is for keida…”  and it goes on!  I’m also so happy to hear him singing Twinkle Twinkle all by himself as we drive to the grocery store.  He spends most of his play time at home “fixing” things as he uses a wooden hammer and screwdriver to fix all his toys, he engineers train tracks, and often picks up a bag and grabs Aiden’s hand saying “we’re going to get groceries, come on Aiden”.  When I ask what he is buying he tells me “cereal, milk, and grapes” – all the important foods of course!  If he’s not going to get groceries he’s going to work – he leaves the room for a few minutes telling me “good bye, I’m going to work” and then returns shortly with a very excited “I’m back!”

I’m loving this new age and stage.  I’m thankful for the support and help I have, because as enjoyable as it is, one must not neglect to mention the effort it takes to answer the many questions of “why?”, “what’s that?”, “what you doing?” and so on, and repetitions of such questions until one gives a satisfactory explanation.  I’m also thankful for the help because there is of course the sore back that comes with carrying a 50 lb child on ones hip – because at 2 they still need that up time and I just happen to have a very solid 2 yr old!

What a gorgeous child he is – what a beautiful joyous gift to be given – the honour of being a mother, the privelege of caring for an individual as they grow and change, the joy it brings me to provide a safe and loving space for this incredibly unique person to grow and discover himself, his boundaries, his independence, and his place in the world.

The tremendous 2s!

The tremendous 2s!

The Birth of The Doula Within Me

Thursday, September 10th, 2009

It was 2004 and I was ready to figure out my calling in life. I knew I wanted to be in some area of medicine, but how does one choose which area? I decided to go to overseas and do some volunteer work. There I would get some exposure to a variety of areas of medicine and hopefully I would be able to narrow it down.

I made a spontaneous decision. I traveled to Uganda with an organization called Friends of Mengo to do the groundwork for a study on how selenium supplements affect the quality of life in AIDs patients. This turned into an incredible 6 month adventure. I was given the opportunity to sit in on many surgeries, work with TB patients, do home visits to AIDs patients, and work in an orphanage with several infants as well as toddlers. It was at Sanyu Babies Home where I discovered my maternal instinct. I had no experience with newborns before this trip, and there was a couple of days where I was alone in the nursery feeding and changing 5 babies under 3 months. I quickly learned how to help care for these babies, and grew very attached to many of them.

At Sanyu Babies home in Uganda 2004

At Sanyu Babies home in Uganda 2004

I traveled to Kitgum in northern Uganda. Here, I had the honour of shadowing in a maternity ward at St. Joseph’s Hospital. I participated in rounds with the Dr.s and deliveries with the midwives. I was given the opportunity of checking dilation, starting IV’s, and participating in many other medical tasks that helped me to gain a great deal of background knowledge about the process of birth, the physical changes and possibilities in the birthing mother’s body, and a tangible understanding of the changes that occur throughout labour. I watched women labour with such strength, and I saw the ways in which they coped and moved through the intensity.

I was in awe when I saw my first birth. I was amazed at the abilities a woman’s body has to accommodate another being both in pregnancy and in childbirth. I knew then that working with labouring women was my calling.

When I returned to Canada I started a Bio-Psych degree with the goal of going to med school, and I began researching ways to get involved in childbirth. I discovered the role of a doula, and I was fascinated. After much reading and studying, I began my work as a doula. I volunteered at a few births where I gained experience in the emotional and physical support techniques by learning from midwives and nurses.

In June of 2006 I became pregnant with my own son.  I chose midwifery care and a doula for my birth. Without the support of my midwives Lorna McRae, and (then student midwife) Leah Seibert, and my doula Chelsea Lafrance – I know that I would not have succeeded in having a vaginal birth of a 9lb 6 oz. posterior, asynclitic baby. I gave birth in the hospital with obstetricians and pediatricians present, and I saw how well the midwives and the hospital staff worked together with my doula.  It has now become my longterm goal to attend the midwifery program, and my interim goal to offer my extensive knowledge, experience, and expertise to help families to achieve their own unique goals in the birthing process. I work well with doctors and midwives, and I am experienced in home births as well as hospital births.

I am here to provide resources and information, choices and solutions, tools and techniques. I am available for your emotional and physical needs, to gently guide partners and loved ones in supporting the labouring mom, and to help you achieve a positive journey.  It is my role and my joy to empower you in the birth experience, and ultimately as parents.

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Women Empowered By Motherhood!

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009

I was talking with a good friend of mine last night.  She also happens to be the very talented graphic design artist who helped us achieve the look we wanted with our labels, and has now created for me a beautiful portfoliio so I can better share my experience and the doula services I offer with expectant families here in Vancouver!  Nadine Staaf is a mother, and an entrepeneur,she works both as a graphic design artist and a remarkable life coach.  She is a talented, strong, driven, and inspirational woman!  In our conversation last night I was feeling such excitement for her and the graphic design work that is coming her way, we were discussing a book she has been working on.

It just so happens the author of this book is a friend and doula client of mine.  New mom Kyla Plaxton has recently published her first book: The Little Women’s Guide to Personal Power: How to Turn Your Monthly Menstruation into the Biggest Blessing of Your Life! A book created to empower young women.  Another strong and inspirational woman with a beautiful vision and the drive to succeed.  A mother, who found the epowerment to create this vision of hers after the journey into motherhood.

Another good friend Caitlyn Letson is a strong woman who found empowerment after the birth of her child to become a business founder.  She has created a wonderful children’s consignment store with another mother as her business partner.  Together they opened the doors to Izzy and Ollie’z Childrens Consignment less than a year after the birth of their children.  They carry Natural Creation products from Belly to Baby!  Another link in this amazing circle of mom entrepeneurs supporting and building businesses together and side by side in this incredible journey of empowered motherhood.

I’ve now moved to Vancouver and am reconnecting with yet another good friend who has also started her own business.  Fantasha Kassam is an empowered mother who is an inspiration and personal trainer to many!  She runs Fantasha’s Family Fitness encouraging families to excercise together helping moms get back in shape, and encouraging an active lifestyle in our children.

I simply had to share my excitement as I watch these wonderful friends (and myself :) ) build businesses and empowering lives for ourselves by following our passions and sharing our talents.  Perhaps it is because of my line of work – working with families through the transitions of welcoming new babies – but I can’t help but grin at the correlation of these women stepping boldly into motherhood, and at the same time leaping into self-employment, and achieving the fine balance of building a business, and raising a child.  The two have so much in common really, I suppose it only makes sense – we give birth to our children, and with a different kind of labour our businesses are born, we feed, nurture, love, give space, and pour passion in to the hours we spend with both.  We balance strength and gentleness, drive and patience, we learn every day of new challenges and more so of new joys!  Each one of the women I’ve mentioned is striving to contribute positively to society, to our world, and to our children’s futures.  There is something so powerful about what we are doing.

Here’s to the empowerment of motherhood, and the positive changes instigated by that empowerment!

So glad I chose to walk

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

This morning I decided to (speed) walk my son to daycare instead of driving him.  He’s only been in daycare a month now, and I promised myself that when the weather got nicer and we got over our colds we would be walking, not driving!  So today was the first day, and it was so nice I had to write down the reasons I enjoyed this morning’s walk so much.  Lately I have not been getting nearly enough exercise or fresh air, so I think the benefits were even more noticeable to me!  It seems like there is not a spare minute or ounce of energy in a parents’ day to “set aside” for exercise on a consistent basis, but it seems that once your body gets a little it craves more…so this is my body’s appetizer :)   Here’s my list of the things I was greatful for on my walk this morning:

- the smell of lilacs I hadn’t noticed growing along the roadside

- the sound of the morning birds!

- the fact that it was so much easier to convince the little bear to get into his stroller to go to daycare, than to get him in the car

- the smiles I exchanged with the people I passed on the street

- the fact that the little bear got a good long look (and a lot of excitement) at the firetrucks along the way

- the improved mood and energy I got just from that 1/2 hr walk first thing in the morning!

- the fact that when I got home I felt inspired to do sit ups instead of lie down for 10 min

- I saved some money on gas….that I spent on the best matcha latte I’ve ever had

- the exchange I shared with a little old man walking a cute little old dog that couldn’t decide where to go

- the time I had to plan my day in my head :)

Really I can’t believe how imrpoved my morning is just by taking the extra 1/2 hr to walk instead of drive this morning…it’s not going to be hard to do it again each day!

“Birth with my Doula” – Livvy’s Birth Story – Shared by Allison

Thursday, May 7th, 2009

My first pregnancy was very easy. I decided not to have a doula – against the advice of my friend (who is a doula). I didn’t want to have “other people” invade my private experience, but I was more than fine going with a doctor, in a hospital, and going the medical route of labour and birth.

When I started leaking some fluid, I had to go to the hospital to confirm it was amniotic fluid and not mucous I was leaking. When that was confirmed, I wasn’t allowed to leave. I was induced less than 6 hours later because my labour hadn’t yet started on it’s own. Because of the induction, the contractions came hard and fast with no rest in between and after about an hour or two and being only 2 cm dilated (I was 1cm before even going to the hospital) I opted for an epidural. My mother and husband could only sit by and rub my hand, no idea how to help or what to say. The epidural was a lovely feeling but I had no idea the consequences of the epidural or the induction on my body or on my baby. Another couple of short hours later, they discovered my baby was breech and a c -section would have to be performed.  All of this lead to a very dopey, unfocused birth with many “other people” coming in and out and not knowing what was going on or where my baby was and not really participating much at all in her entry into the world – something I was not prepared for and not even aware that I would feel so badly for it.
Because of all of these “snowball” effect events, I decided next time would be different.
My second pregnancy consisted of reading material such as Ina May Gaskin’s Guide to Childbirth and the video “The Business of Being Born” and had my husband do the same. I went to a midwife and asked my friend Emily to be my doula. I was going to attempt a VBAC.
There are so many things I was happy about with my above choices. 1) I would not be medically induced because of the stress it puts on the body, it risks opening the uterine scar from my c-section. 2) Epidurals were an options, but not recommended because then I wouldn’t be able to feel if my scar did open during labour. 3) All of my labour partners were in full support of a natural birth and would be coaching me to stay as close to that goal as possible.
When I did go in to labour, I called my doula first. My contractions had been going throughout the night, and were about 5 mins apart, but only lasting about 30 seconds at 5.30am on Monday morning. She came over around 7am and chatted, did our dishes (!), made sure we had food for labour for both me and my husband, and made frozen tea pads for perineal healing after the birth. She left for a few hours, calling to check in, to run a few errands, and returned around 4pm,  My contractions still weren’t longer or closer together, but they were more intense, and I was having to moan through them instead of just breathing. She would moan with me, time my contractions, make sure I was getting fluids between them, make food for me, suggest other positions to help the pain, and by 6 or 7pm, when they were getting longer and more intense still, she would apply counter pressure to my back and hips and sway with me while we moaned together to keep the tones low.
When it was time to go to the hospital, she was right there with us, knew where to go, helped put bags away in a corner, grabbed a birthing ball for me to sit on, and prepared beverages and cloths to help keep me cool and hydrated. Every time I had a long or intense contraction she would help keep my tone low when it needed to be lowered, and assured me when I was doing well. She helped prepare the shower for me to sit in while Andrew ran warm water over me, and made sure there were warm blankets around when I got chills.
She also supported Andrew. She made sure he was getting enough rest and food to be there for me, guided him to massage and provide counter pressure through contractions as well, and reassured him while I was groaning like a slow-motion football replay :)
I could not imagine labouring without Emily. Every time I thought “oh it would be great if someone could….” she was already doing it. And even when I thought “that’s not necessary,” like doing our dishes or making frozen pads…..it was the biggest help in the world! I just didn’t know it. It was great to come home and not have to clean dishes to make a meal and the pads have really helped sooth my tender bottom.
From the bottom of my heart Emily………thank you!

I do not think I would have stayed at home as long or stayed as calm or been as comfortable with my decisions if you weren’t there providing the support that you did.

Spring Salad

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

· Romaine lettuce

· Avacado

· Feta cheese

· Cucumber

· Salad nuts – sesame seeds, soy nuts, sunflower seeds

· Bolthouse Farms – Creamy Yogourt Dressing  OR any dressing of your choice :)

The combination of the feta cheese, avacado and nuts in this salad make such a satisfying flavour!